You might be tempted to beg, negotiate or sulk, but this will only push her further away and make you seem pathetic.
It can be pretty frustrating if
you invite a lady over with the intention of finally getting down and
she refuses to give you what you want. Knowing how to handle it will
make a very big difference.
1. Don't push it:
You
might be tempted to beg, negotiate or sulk, but this will only push her
further away and make you seem pathetic. Plus, it will instantly turn
her off. There is nothing arousing about being pressured for sex. If she
says no, let it be, simply pretend it does not bother you and don't
bring it up for a while. She will be taken aback and begin to
immediately question whether or not she will give it to you, which is
what you want.
2. Get her to relax:
The
thing is, most women expect that visiting a guy means he will ask for
sex. This causes her to put her guard up. Even if she is willing to give
it to you, she would still want you to work for it. So, what you need
to do is get her to bring down her guard by getting her to relax. If you
ask and she says no, focus on other ways to make her feel comfortable
with you. Watch a comedy, play some games, whatever makes her laugh and
let go. It is only when she feels truly comfortable that she will
consider having sex with you.
3. Make you move:
Now
she is relaxed, comfortable and laughing with you, this is when you
make your move. Flirt with her by bringing sex into the convo. Start
with something random but not too threatening like, 'Damn, if I ever get
hold of that sexy ass of yours, I will take you to heaven and back.' In
one statement, you have complimented her and made her think about sex
with you. If you have followed steps 1 and 2 above, by now she will be
having an inner conflict whether or not to let you have some. But once
again, don't push. Flirt with her and compliment her. If she giggles or
return the flirting, slowly move towards her and give her a soft kiss.
Let her lead the way so she feels like she has all the power. At this
point, make sure she tells you with her words or her body that she is ready to take things to the next level.
Warning:
These tips will only work if she is attracted to you in the first place
but unsure if she wants to sleep with you. If she insists she is not
interested in sex after cajoling and flirting with her, respect her
decisions. There is absolutely nothing sexy or manly about rape or
coercive sex.
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